My only real fear is that we won't grow in members.I think the root of this fear is really the question, "how does a church grow?" I think that's a great question to wrestle with, because God has such a big plan for our church that can't be fulfilled by the congregation that we are now. But several things come to mind that I want to share:
- Paul gives us a great model of church growth in 1 Corinthians 3,, "I planted the seed, Apollos watered, but God made it grow
.." I think that we need to focus on what we do, and depend on God to do what HE do. Phrased another way, we work like it all depends on us, and pray like it all depends on Him. Planting is all about preparation of the soil and dropping seeds. In the last six months we taken big steps of sowing seeds (i.e. CONTACT, Door Hangers, Mailers, Friend Days). Watering is about nurture. We nurture people in Large Groups, Small Groups, and Prayer Group. Now we have taken steps, but we are a long way from being an aligned church all participating in those things together. I believe that if we could all get together doing what we do then He'll do what HE do. - Because God's plan is bigger than us, we are assured that He already has resources available to us to accomplish it. Here's a thought, "God already has the people in our community that He needs to build His church." We've just got to go find them. We need to help people find their way into God's plan to use them at SRC.
- Yesterday I bumped into a scripture again that has been working on me like sandpaper on soap, 2 Timothy 1:7 "For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love, and of self-discipline." I include this thought because your comment referenced fear. Someone once said that FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. We can look at what we've seen God do at SRC and we can start believing that the evidence is not going in the right direction. We wouldn't be the first. I've read the stories of people who followed God, and even enjoyed His presence, that periodically looked at their journey and wished they could go back to Egypt. But we learn from those stories that Faith is about following and even falling but we move forward not back. What has stricken me most from this verse is that it has nothing to do with a generic fear, nor should it's application be made to specific fears. It is specifically related to leadership of the Church. As a church I think we need to have more confident conversations to lead people toward God's plan.
--Ben
2 comments:
I'm glad to hear that those people have come to you and inquired about membership in the church. I have more, but I suppose those comments belong on yesterdays post. Check there.
Drew, I really agree with you about the diversity of backgrounds that people come from. I think it is one of the greatest things about our church.
Your question though is a tough one. I'm not sure what the answer is. I've tried phone calls, home visits, mail invitations...
If you or anyone could offer me the answers I would definately be open to hearing them.
But ultimately I don't think it's in our hands. People have a number of reasons they stop attending, but I think when members leave for an extended period of time it gets harder and harder to come back. A member has taken on responsibility for the church. When they are away I think they feel guilty, because they haven't been living up to the expectations of membership. It is a really strange predicament because they are often in need of the care of the body of Christ. The other church members want to care for them, but this guilt divides us.
I don't know those are some of my thoughts. Again, I'm open to strategies you might know, because there is nothing I want more than our family being whole.
-Ben
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