Friday, August 31, 2007
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Hungry!?!
We always try to keep people aware of series that we are preaching, but I want to ask you to really pray for the Compassion Journey. I really think that it has the potential to change our church, and those that come into the church. I'm asking that we be a church of inviters in order to get people to hear this series.
The spiritual destiny of our community will only change when they are brought face to face with the teachings of Jesus. How does that happen? It happens when we are living proof, when we are the face and hands of Jesus serving in our community; giving a care about whether people are continuing one more day apart from Jesus. Join me in praying like this series all depends on God, and working like it all depends on us.
--Ben
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Update
--Ben
Monday, August 27, 2007
Heartbreak
I'm sorry to post such a downer, but I would appreciate your prayers as I process this, and what's worse is that he and his wife must be in such turmoil.
That's what your pastor is really thinking about today.
--Ben
Prayer Need
--Ben
Schedule Adjustment
Don't worry, I'll get it straight one of these days.
--Ben
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Sewing Team
We need people to sew for the set build. If you can sew and would like to help, please e-mail me at ben@severnriverchurch.com .
Thanks,
Ben
Friday, August 24, 2007
Swing Set Update
--Ben



New Audio
Starting this week this audio will be broadcast into the lobby area to help people find their way in. Enjoy!
See you Sunday!
--Ben
* Music provided by www.royaltyfreemusic.com for non-profit use.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Dream a little dream of me...
This week we close out the Back to the Beginning series on Genesis. We're looking at our fourth character Joseph. Joseph is easily one of my top 5 people in the Bible. Those who have been in my ministry long enough know that he is one of my favorites to exegete*. There is so much in his life that I think is exciting and relevant and almost too often overlooked.
I can't wait to share about it Sunday. This is my prayer. That people who are confused or beat down in the circumstances of life, who are wondering what the next step toward fulfillment in life is, will be at Severn River Church on Sunday. I believe that God's word can transform your life.
See You Sunday!
--Ben
* critical explanation or interpretation of a text or portion of a text, esp. of the Bible.
A Church Of Inviters

We are really excited to have released our brand new invitation cards. So far I've handed out several, and with very positive results. I think that one of the biggest reasons that any of us don't invite is the fear of rejection. These cards really help in that area. They're so clever that even if people are negative towards church, can't help but smile over the invitation.I hope you'll join us in being a church of inviters.
--Ben
* note: the image above was an original picture file, cards have been updated with new location.
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Contacts
Today I picked up another two. Bill Gillette is a retired West Point graduate and currently works for Waddell and Reed financial planners. Additionally, I met Don Rosenshine. He works for a mortgage brokership out of Annapolis, specifically with reverse mortgages.
I got a call from Bill two weeks ago. He was at an NRG networking meeting and got my card from someone in the group that I happened into in Severna Park. He asked for a lunch appointment and I was happy to oblige. We went to what used to be the Officers Club on Ft. Meade. To Bill's chagrin the commanders had not done their job and it is now available to anyone who comes in. But they serve a daily buffet lunch, and it was a nice place for the luncheon we had.
These two guys were great company sharing important information about their services and products. Bill was what Don called a "marketer" while he believed himself to be a "salesman". The difference being that Don sells the product, but Bill can initiate relationships. Something to learn on both sides there.
The networking continued to make me think about the interface between church and business. What relationship can there be, and how can we reach people without reaching them where they are. There seems to be a taboo in this area, but I think there might be an important element of Church ministry we're missing. More on that later.
For now, if you're looking for information regarding reverse mortgages call Don Roseshine at 410.269.1701 or e-mail donrosenshine@hotmail.com . For Financial Planning with a conservative and successful company like Waddell and Reed call Bill Gillette 410.674.2801.
--Ben
Google Servers Down
--Ben
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Part of the Wall
I guess what I've been thinking is that it is not just a matter of the "Machine" be it a wall or church. It's the Mission, and the mission exists only in people not the Machine. We can get focused on our "wall" or we can be focused on our mission. If we get caught up only in the machine of what songs we sing, how we play them, what food we have at food services, what teaching we hear, or did what they were supposed to do on Sunday we're caught in the machine. And is that really what we're about? We believe that the church is better at being the church when we're not at church. That's mission not machine.
The wall was an integral part of what Nehemiah did, just like our Sunday Gatherings are an integral part of SRC. It just wasn't the point then, and it's not the point now.
--Ben
Let It Rain
--Ben
Monday, August 20, 2007
Weekend Reflection
1. Not back to full capacity, but a lot of folks were finding their way back to the church after the summer vacation months.
2. Recently I've taken over the Large Group responsibility of organizing volunteers to help with set up/teardown, and all the other volunteer positions on Sunday mornings. I have been very pleased with the response of people I've talked with, and was very pleased yesterday when people that I hadn't asked to help showed up early anyway. Volunteerism is a word that the community around us is very familiar with, inside the church we call it ministry. Thanks!
3. FIRST FUND. A couple weeks ago, we made the decision to initiate the First Fund. The First Fund is a special collection separate from tithing for a special project. You can read an earlier post to understand more fully what it is about, but bottom line, it is paying for a remodel/makeover of our current worship space. Yesterday we topped out over $1000.00, so I'm going to ask you to stop giving. And for those of you who didn't even get the chance to give to it yet, that's ok. I'm sure there will be other needs in the future. Thanks for giving. It was really a test for us in our first capital campaign. And you guys did great!
See you next Sunday!
--Ben
Bad Night For Ravens, Great Night For Me
Great night. The Ravens lost, in what was a much different game than the score (10-9) would indicate. Bottom line is that the Ravens offense struggled, and the defense allowed a touchdown. But we'll get'em next week. After all it's only the pre-season so losses don't matter. (It only matters when we win.)
I'd like to say that I really enjoyed the time with my family, but in all honesty I get pretty intense about the game when I'm there. No but seriously I probably enjoyed that game the most of any I've been to. Until the next one.
Go Ravens
--Ben
Saturday, August 18, 2007
New Swing Set
I'll keep you posted with updates and pictures.
--Ben
Friday, August 17, 2007
The Novicks
Great people. Great time.
--Ben
Thursday, August 16, 2007
I'm Back Again.
I have been traveling all week to Northern VA to a conference that I didn't really want to attend, but man am I glad I did. God has been speaking to me for some time about some things in our new church that I think he wants us to change, and this conference helped to form in me the things God wants to do through us.
I've long told you that I believe that every person/organization has a voice, and when we find our voice we will move into ministry in ways we've never seen before. I think that I found the pathway toward finding our voice. I look forward to educating and informing you each step of the way so that together we can make this church what it is supposed to be...a significant church in the Annapolis area making disciples, baptizing them and teaching them to obey God's word.
Glad to have gone, gladder to be back. It's tough driving the 495 beltway everyday. I'm worn out.
--Ben
Monday, August 13, 2007
Re: The Bottom
Someone did ask me if it was the last big vacation day of the summer. I said, "I hope so."
See you all next Sunday.
--Ben
Volunteer
Give all you can give...time, money, work, service. Give it all. In a world that is moving faster and faster toward the end of our time here, sacrifice for things that really matter. Bills, achievement, career, etc. are all going to be over one day and the only thing that will continue is the church of Jesus Christ. The only enduring thing will be what you did for the souls of others. You can make an eternal difference by loading and unloading the trailer, running cables or the sound board, watching over little children and introducing them to God's love from a young age. You can make an eternal difference. Give all that you can give, it's worth it.
--Ben
Book Review: Courageous Leadership
Book Review: Courageous Leadership
By Bill Hybels
I have more books on leadership on my shelves than any other subject. Recently when I began a new regimen with my coach Patrick Grach he required that I read this book. It facilitates our discussion on a monthly basis. After reading the first two chapters, I realized that it was a must read for my Operations Team as well. This is the best leadership book I’ve ever read.
I have given verbal reviews to a number of people about this book. Generally what I’ve said goes something like this. There is a pastor in DC named Mark Batterson. He is an author and I have reviewed his books and keep track of his blog daily. I’m looking forward to his next book, I’ll buy it and read it. But he was planning on writing a “leadership” book, until a change several months ago lead him to a different book to publish. I think Mark is a great guy and good author, but what does he know about leadership compared to what we’re given in Courageous Leadership? The reason I bring up the comparison is not that Mark pastors 1000 in DC and Hybels pastors 15,000 in
Drawing from his own experiences at church, home, and hobbies…
For the rest of this book review click the link titled Book Reviews to the right.--Ben
Saturday, August 11, 2007
The Bottom
--Ben
Where I've been
I started our Second year fundraising, by asking churches and individuals who supported us in our first year to continue for a second year. I'm currently 3/5 through that process. Because I have a relationship with these pastors and churches I am handwriting reflections of what their contributions have meant so far. This is, of course, the long way around, but I think they deserve a sincere thank you for the investment they've made. Enclosed in the card is a postcard that allows them to express their intention for the future. Some churches I know are going to end their support, I wanted them to be able to do it while knowing what their church's sacrifice has meant to me.
That started bleeding into Friday morning. I sat at my desk and started doing "prep work" addressing and stamping the envelopes and postcards. The whole time I was hearing in my head, "This is your rest day (sabbath). Why are you working?" So, I got up and went in the house where Corie asked if I had been working. I sheepishly gave a non-commital answer (it was only addressing and stamping.) Then she helped direct my priorities, by moving me out of the house towards Lake Waterford Park with my girls, lunch, swimming, watching tv at my in-laws. I got home at around 10:00 p.m. Many people have no trouble resting. It is a little more difficult for me. Taking a day to rest during the week is a discipline for me. I think that others think it comes easier to me than it does to them, I just think I work harder at resting. The bottom line is I can't afford to wear out. A jaded plumber, or burned out accountant can still operate their business focusing only on the task and having a terrible attitude. But for me to accomplish the mission of pastoring I need to be as fresh, creative, and senstive as I can be. I'm doing eternal work with people not tasks. If you ever wonder how to pray for me, rest is probably a good one. And wisdom. And improved preaching. (But you already pray for that. every week ;-)
--Ben
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Realy Long Short Week
Case in point. This morning in the shower I was reflecting on what a long week it had been already. I was scrolling through my memory of all that had happened; all I had been thinking about. And all of these things and it's only Tuesday. This was going to be a long week.
As I rinsed the shampoo out of my hair, it hit me. Today's Wednesday!
Then my entire thinking changed. I have so much to get done and a day less to do it.
Getting into the shower it was a long week, getting out...not long enough.
Don't worry, one of these days I'll get a grip on reality again.
--Ben
A Theology of Space
Corie has a much better taste for that kind of thing, but if you visit our house you'll find that we don't go "all out" to decorate. We only add decoration when we can afford it or if we need it. We've got THIS END UP furniture that will last us forever, and we got it second and third hand. Not really into stuff and material possessions.
But there is one place that I really care about looks and decor, and that's at our worship space.
There are a number of scripture passages that inform my perspective on worship space decoration and I thought that I should share with you, why it is important to me...a theology as it were.
- Genesis 1-2 Worship in the Garden
- Exodus 25-40
- 1 Kings 6-7
- Revelation 21-22
In light of this scriptural foundation, what can we take from the situation we read about and apply in the situation we find ourselves in? I think that we need to make worship space a place where the senses of the people gathered are piqued toward God. Where they can disconnect from the life they live 24-6 3/4. And for that one quarter, for just a little while come to a place where they refocus on God. The worship space of today is practice for what is to come. That's why I think we need to do our best with how worship spaces are decorated.
Yesterday I posted regarding the First Fund . This is the Theology behind that request. It's so that we can make our worship space a place where people can meet God, know Him, and love Him more.
--Ben
Tuesday, August 07, 2007
First Fund
The First Fund has a $1,000.00 goal. The money will be used to improve lighting, erect pipe and drape to cover the furniture and wires, purchase tables for our stations that are lighter and less obtrusive, and improve our children's room.
I was so pleased that someone in the church, who would be away on Sunday, brought their check to my house. They gave the first $150.00 someone else contributed $100.00, so in the first weekend we already received 25%.
If you would like to particpate in the First Fund, please make checks payable to Severn River Church, and mark the memo: First Fund. I believe this is a challenge, but I think we can reach our goal together. Giving may be done on Sunday morning during our ministry time, or directed to our mailing address: 814 Barbara Ct. Glen Burnie, MD 21060.
--Ben
Developing a Leadership Culture
--Ben
Do you remember when...
--Ben
Monday, August 06, 2007
Slump or Bump
Our Operations team has been challenged with this statement all summer, "We can and must grow this summer." And despite the numbers I believe we are growing. Here are my reasons.
1. So many people are traveling, but they'll be coming back.
I can't wait for September. I really believe that as we head into the Compassion Journey that we're going to see all the people who have been away, all coming back. Then it's going to feel like a growth spurt, but we haven't even added anyone yet.
2. The growth that's happening during the down time.
I'm so thankful for people like Rob who, last week, brought three guests with him. I was excited myself this week to have a guest that I invited come. As we continue to be faithful in inviting, God will continue to grow the church. When these people come and join us for the Compassion Journey, we're gonna look around and say, "Wow, when did we become a church of 50?" Our answer will probably be that we grew because of the Compassion Journey, we grew in the fall, etc. The fact will be that we've been growing all along, it just didn't look like it.
So what do we do with what's left of the summer? I want to ask you to dig in and invite, invite, invite. Invitation is the sowing and reaping of church growth. We need to be a church of inviters.
--Ben
Sunday, August 05, 2007
Friday, August 03, 2007
Day Off
--Ben
Thursday, August 02, 2007
Pastor's Growth Group
--Ben
Better Blogging Bureau
The purpose of this blog is to give access to me, my thoughts, and ideas related to my life and work for the church. It was birthed out of the question, "What if people really knew what their pastor was thinking about, pursuing, believed was the direction for the church? What if we could all be aligned around one common vision?" Thus this website was born.
I'm so thankful for all the people who visit this site and contribute to the church by working together, staying informed of vision. Vision leaks. It drains out of us no matter how compelling the vision is. We have to stay in touch to keep the vision full in our church.
And just think, unlike Exxon, you can fill up here for free.
--Ben
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
Promoted
I felt really psyched about it. I love to rub shoulders with people you are as passionate about their mission and message as I am. Mainly I guess because I love my mission and message.
--Ben
Networking
I have a friend in sales that says "Shy salesman have starving kids." It's a great game to watch.
I was praying for someone I knew to come in. The event is a private affair in the back of the coffee house, and I wanted to at least figure out who and what the group was. Then my friend Jackie, a local business owner showed up. She's part of the event and we got to talk with each other. It's a group that meets weekly. I'm looking for my edge into this group.
--Ben